How Birth Order Affects Personality Essay -- Why Birth Order Matters

In my family there are three kids, two boys and one girl. I am eighteen years old making me the oldest of the three. My sister, who is twelve, falls behind me. Lastly my little brother is just behind my sister at nine years old. I recently researched that the order of birth can have a huge impact on the personality of the children. I found it very remarkable that most of these traits where exhibited in my younger siblings and I! Although there were some exceptions, I found that most of the qualities that describe a first born in my research described me as an individual. First of all let’s start with the things I agreed with in my research about my personality. I read in Teresa’s â€Å"Birth Order Traits† that high achievers where first-borns. I think that this quality describes me in a couple of ways. I always try to look to the future, because it’s all that really matters. â€Å"Right now† is gone with every second, so we are going to meet the future soon enough. Because of this mindset I put all I have into the things I do, because even if right now it seems like it won’t matter in two years, it might. Would one rather have it do well for them or have it come back and bite them in the butt. With this thought in mind it results in me shooting for the stars, because at least on the way up I’ll hit a mountain, which is higher than where I am now. Another quality that describes me is that I’m very controlling (Dr. Gail Gross, â€Å"The Achiever, the Peacemaker and the Life of the Party), especially of my siblings. I’ve always tried to be a mini-parent to them, even though they don’t give me any respect. Even if I’m not with my siblings I always like to have control over a situation, including being a leader. For example, wh... ...y/development/social/birth-order-and-personality/>. ""Birth Order: What is "Birth Order"?." ." PBSKids . CastleWorks, Inc. Web. 14 Mar 2015. . Clifford, Isaacson. "Birth Order Plus." Birth Order Plus. Upper Des Moines Counseling Center, LLC.. Web. 14 Mar 2015. . Gross, Gail. "The Achiever, the Peacemaker and the Life of the Party: How Birth Order Affects Personality." TheHuffingtonPost.com. The Huffington Post, 23 dec 2013. Web. 14 Mar 2015. . Belkin, Lisa , and Emma Mustich. "28 Signs You." TheHuffingtonPost.com. The Huffington Post, 11 Nov 2013. Web. 14 Mar 2015. .